Discussions on the family

  The discussion this week has been very informative on the subject of divorce, marriage, and blended families. For as much as we hope for an ideal family situation we know that in reality life is hard and that sometimes in some situations divorce is the best solution to the situation even it isn’t most of the time. An that because of that it results in both split families as well as merger families latter potentially when the parents remarry. One of the biggest take aways fro m the discussions during the weak was some of the realities of divorce. For staters divorce is is something entirely based in self interest and putting oneself first which is not to that you should neglect yourself in marriage far from it but if both spouses seek to be selfless it is almost impossible for divorce to occur or even come close to that point that is not to say that there will be no tension but that it will just be the natural tension of two different opinions. Some of the other take aways if how most

  Parenting  As we are preparing for both marriage and later for a future family something to keep in mind is how vital a role that marriage plays in family because the family will only ever be as strong as the marriage is because how can you effectively parents when you are in conflict with each other and on is trying to parent very different from which may lead to nothing being taught or something you don’t want to teach being taught. Because just as important as what is being taught is how it is taught because if you try to teach virtue while being a scumbag you will be tuned out or no one will believe what you teach so a marriage in harmony is the best foundation to begin the process of teaching. From there before we even begin considering parenting we how can you do something effectively without even considering what it really is. A good example is teach if you don’t really understand what is teaching and what it means to teach how effectively you can do it. The same is true to pa