The nature of sexuality

 This week much of the focus has been on the role that sexual intimacy has in marriage but also the danger of it outside of the bounds of marriage. As male and females are different in how they think. Most men and women are very different in how they view and respond to sex. One of the best examples of the price of sexual intimacy outside of marriage is the effects of teenage sex. The most obvious and well now detrimental side effects of it and a large part of why we have things like health class and sex education in high school is teen pregnancy. There are numerous negative consequences of this event. First often times this leads to the young women dropping out of high school for a variety of reasons from the difficulty of trying to be a high school student and pregnant teen to the potential rumors and ostracized environment and atmosphere that tends to follow it since even today teen pregnancy is greatly looked down upon in society as a whole and most social circles as well. And second is that being a mother is hard enough even for an adult who has done stuff to prepare for pregnancy and having a child. Teens just are equipped financially or emotionally to raise and take care of children when they are barely leaving childhood themselves putting themselves and their child in a difficult situation either trying to raise their child a very difficult circumstances or to put up their child for adoption which often is painful for the mother and potentially for the child in the future when they as why they were adopted.

Next are some of the things to be aware of for all individuals regardless of age about sexual intimacy. First is the danger that women face by choosing to be sexually intimate outside of marriage. One of the differences that separates men and women is the production of high levels of oxytocin which is sometimes called the bonding hormone during sexual intimacy. While in does reinforce a feeling of closeness to their partner the danger especially outside of marriage is for the relationship to end but because of that attachment women are far more likely to be emotionally devastated do how close they feel while the male likely have far less of that do to some of the biological differences between each sex.

Next is the miss information that is spread by the various media available today the worst example being pornography. How it negatively missinforms is through portraying female sexuality far differently from reality creating problems for both men and women. For women it can easily lead to them wondering if something is wrong with themselves and why they experience sex so different than how it is displayed. The same is true for male they can easily be misguided in the reality of how females experience sex which can lead to frustration to him if he is trying to me intimate in the form for being unable to help his partner and the frustration for females in being unable to reach climax making sex potentially only a painful experience. Lastly is the other danger of only listening and relying on media and that is the over emphasis on only the physical nature of sex when it has just as much a emotional and spiritual component. The danger to only looking at the physical component includes not understanding why something feels wrong during sex because by only seeing the physical by the time they realize something is of they are already hurt or missing much of the core of what makes sexual intimacy so precious.